Definition and Categories of Men
The Male Version of Grooming – In all Places
When we started discussing Hair Down There at a dinner on night, one of the women said, “And what about manscaping?” What about it, I thought? What is it anyways? Pause. Fast-forward 9 months. The site has been up for about 3 months and we receive a question from a male reader. The question? ”I’d be interested to know a womans perspective on what men should do. Including pubic hair, chest hair, underarms.”
Okay, I’m thinking that here’s an easy topic – manscaping. I start researching the subject. I poll the Anonymous8 and beyond. I read up on the subject online. And guess what I found? This is a pretty hairy subject (sorry for the obviously bad pun – couldn’t resist). It is not so easy. That’s why we divided this into a series, again. Plus, men are entitled to a series about their hair as long as we spent so much time on the subject ourselves, right?
Definition, Please
First, there is no one definition, but to sum it up, manscaping involves a man grooming his bodily hair from the neck down, and it can vary from some minor trimming of chest hair all the way to taking all of it off – everywhere. On men, aside from the face, there is underarm, arm and leg, chest and back, and hair down there, all of which come under the definition of manscaping. The urban dictionary site lists nine separate definitions for the term – nine. And like for women, there are tools for different types of hair trimming/removal needs – specialized razors, waxing (except it is not advised in some places – the really sensitive ones), laser treatments (for back and back of neck), and all sort of variations in between. AskMen.com has a complete series of articles on it here.
It also seems that it is certainly more of an issue with younger men, because manscaping is much more accepted now than when we were in college. This has a lot to do with the history of manscaping, which we’ll cover next post. A friend told an A8 member that the rage at their local high school is that the boys are going Brazilian. Huh? As a mother, after taking a deep breath to reduce my initial shock, I realized that this wave is coming, so we’d better be prepared. Better to know about it than be surprised, right?
Manscaping Categories
Based on discussions with several women about the men in their lives, there seem to be two basic categories of manscapers and several subcategories. Basically, this is easy. Category 1 – men who do. Category 2 – men who don’t. Simple enough, right? It just seems that of the women I’ve spoken with, their guys either believe in it or just don’t and would never manscape.
Let’s start with the simple category, Category, 2, those who don’t. They are their hairy selves – take it or leave it. These are the men who practice the same sort of grooming that men have traditionally been doing for the last century – shaving of the face and taking care of some other things around the face. Period.
Now, Category 2 guys can be further defined. There are the athletes (like swimmers) who shave to gain speed and reduce drag, those who go all the way (I’m talking Brazilian +), and those who dabble (I’ll refer to them in the future as the dabblers) by doing some basic grooming to neaten thing up or maybe take care of their back hair, but that’s it.
So, are we missing any categories here? We are definitely going to need your help on this one, because the information out there is so spotty that we need reader input to put together as comprehensive a series as possible.
Other Posts You May Like
Manscaping Part 2 – The History of Manscaping
Manscaping Part 3 – What do Women Think About Manscaping
Does Size Matter – The Female Perspective
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How about the seasonal manscaper?
My husband only manscapes in the hot weather. He’s not a super hairy guy, but well, when the weather crosses 100 degrees here in Austin, everyone feels a little gross.
The only thing I really dislike about manscaping is that when it grows back in to the point of stubble, it feels really awful on a woman’s skin!
Gigi,
That is a great one! Hmmmm… Hadn’t thought about or seen that one out there quite yet. Thanks for stopping by.
Sarah
Ow. I just imagined full-contact stubble burn. Ow.
I’ve known people in all these categories, from men whose human-gorilla look was part of their machismo, to a friend who is a veritable POLAR BEAR whose patient female swim team members went through a pack of razors on him before every swim meet, to men who were naturally almost hairless and squealed to borrow tweezers on the sly if they found out there was a rogue hair sticking out somewhere. Yes, seasonal manscapers, too, though sometimes that’s a temperature issue and sometimes it’s a “I want to offer a clear view of my sweaty muscles as I work out on the beach by those women I’m hoping will be there again” vs. “I’m in a sweater, so who the hell is gonna know either way” issue.
I’ve also known a few who fall into another subcategory of performance-shavers. That is, not sporting performance, but dance and/or theater performers. Usually it’s the chest (theater) or chest and legs (dance) that end up strategically hairless for performances in those cases.
VanillaSnark,
Very good information, as usual. So now we can add performance and seasonal manscapers to the categories. Helpful…
Sarah
My manscaping involves making sure I have no nose and/or ear hair waiving at passers by and having conversations about the time of day.
During the summer, much like gigi’s man, I manscape more. I live in the deep south and it gets hot and sweaty. I don’t, however, shave down to bare. I use some scissors to trip close (1/4 to 1/2 inch). It keeps things from getting gooey (technical term) yet stays soft and I don’t worry about accidentally nipping my man-bits.
Mike,
Thanks so much for the low down (okay, maybe that was a bad choice of words). Still, your detailed descriptions is very helpful and logical.
Sarah
Hmm,
What about the woman-pleaser manscaper? I know a lot of guys who have no desire to do it on their own but will shave just about anything if their girlfriend requests it.
My husband is a seasonal manscaper as well. He is getting fuzzier as he gets older and is getting embarrassed about wearing swimming trunks in the hot weather (he uses the excuse that its too hot and itchy to go running, but I’m pretty sure we all know the truth). He normally trims his chest hair (and shaves or waxes any backhair) in the summer.
Lauren,
Thanks for the comment. Interesting about the “seasonal” guy. I guess it’s no different than the seasonal stuff women do we well when bathing suit season approaches.
Thanks,
Sarah
As a cyclist I shave my legs and Alisa loves it. She’s actually the one who talked me into shaving my legs 4 years ago. Other than that there are times when a trim with a shaver, I’d be scared to have scissors that close to my boys, is nice to change things up.
Personally, it’s healthy to make a change every once in a while. It surprises Alisa and it’s just something to keep the romance and passion alive.
Great post Sarah.
p.s. left A8 an award on my site.
Don’t feel like you have to pass it on – may not keep with your vibe here…but wanted to help get the word out about y’all!
Tony,
It’s great to have you by. Interesting comment. I’m beginning to see that what men do is as personal for them and their other as it is for women. Fewer societal expectations, though…
Thanks,
Sarah
Gigi,
Thanks for the award. I really appreciate it. I’ve looked at it and as soon as this bout with the cold passes, I’m going to move on it.
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My boyfriend likes to trim his chest hair with his beard trimmer, so his incredibly long chest hair doesn’t get too out of control.