7 Reasons for Taking the Sexy Challenge

06. May, 2011 Categories: Intimacy in Marriage by Sarah Baron 1 Comment

The 7 Days of Sex Challenge

Tony and Alisa Dilorenzo of One Extraordinary Marriage have a challenge for us married folk. They want couples to sign up for the 7 day sex challenge, which means that you commit, with your spouse, to having sex 7 days in a row. I encourage you to consider signing up for this for a number of reasons.

7 Reasons Why

1. For one week, it makes this critical part of your marriage a priority. Instead of the kids or your finances or other things. you spend one week dedicated to thinking about this and dedicated to the pursuit of happiness – in the bedroom.

2. As a byproduct of this challenge, you will better communicate about intimacy in your marriage. I know that we’re all sick of the “communication” word, but it is THE key to long term health in your marital intimate life.

3. It will be fun and we could all use a little fun!

4. You will make memories together. Who knows? While you are working or cooking, a particular memory may cause you to smile to yourself. You can also joke about it or laugh about it later on. It’s a bonding experience (yes, I know that’s obvious, but it’s about making the commitment and doing it together).

5. If you are shy or rancorous about the whole subject, this is a safe way to step outside of your comfort zone, knowing that for one week, you’ll put your excuses aside.

6. This is not a long term commitment. We’re talking 7 days here. When Tony and Alisa first tried something like this, they tried a 60 day challenge. From that perspective, 7 days should be more than manageable.

7. It’s free. Sign up here. You’ll thank me later.